may be

i was reading my last few blogs and i felt i don't like the blogger.
is this me or the one who blogs is me?

Buddy's troubles

When your friend comes to you with a problem (may be other than life and death or money problems ) try not to take yourself or your friend seriously. Try not to take things on face value.  Think hard before offering a solution. Most likely your friend has nothing more interesting to talk about or merely wants attention. Most likely your friend is just "pouring out". So, don't mess with their ecosystem by trying to solve their problem. You might just end up screwing your relationship. Just smile and say it' ll all be ok. Your friend will be fine :/