may be

i was reading my last few blogs and i felt i don't like the blogger.
is this me or the one who blogs is me?

Buddy's troubles

When your friend comes to you with a problem (may be other than life and death or money problems ) try not to take yourself or your friend seriously. Try not to take things on face value.  Think hard before offering a solution. Most likely your friend has nothing more interesting to talk about or merely wants attention. Most likely your friend is just "pouring out". So, don't mess with their ecosystem by trying to solve their problem. You might just end up screwing your relationship. Just smile and say it' ll all be ok. Your friend will be fine :/

They refuse to grow up

Some adults always want to be treated like kids. They want their stupidity to be seen as a cute thing. There are times I really wish I found it cute and could ignore it. Would save myself a lot of trouble that way.

gyan

Once bitten, twice shy ? Forever ? No no.

When you get a jolt in life, you tend to slow down.You tend to shut yourself off. Withdraw. Introspect. Gradually, that rhythm begins to come back. That lust for life revives. You will begin to surprise yourself. Patience and belief in yourself will never leave you hopeless for long.

What is important is how you interpret your past. How you look at it. If you analyze your actions and underlying thoughts and if you are open to criticism, it would be easier for you to take a step forward. To be in a right frame of mind, you have to accept yourself first and only then will you not add to your baggage but learn from your experience.

If your guards are up, you will save yourself some trouble. But never letting them down, will make your life dull. Trust yourself. Trust others too. Because that's the only way to live a happy life.

Discover life

If alcohol is your escape plan then you are probably doing the wrong thing. All it will do, is drag you back into your painful past that you are trying to run away from, in the first place. It can magnify your pain if that's what you wish for. You can never escape. 

Truth is alcohol and that intense pain in your heart cannot help you fathom depths of life. No secrets are revealed. It might introduce you to your inhibitions, if that's the secret you are looking for. 

Accept your past. Forgive yourself. Forgive others. Be honest to yourself. Find another road to walk on. You may understand your purpose in your journey. How would you know if you don't try? How would you know if you give up on life? Who is going to find it out for you? If you fixate your eyes on the end result, you would remain lost forever. Its a slow discovery. Its a personal discovery. There cannot be one answer.

Life

Life is weird. You can go from being strangers, to being friends, to being more than friends, to being practically strangers again- Morgan Freeman

Well, bade bade deshon mein, itne saare logon mein, yeh choti choti baatein hoti rehti hai